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Episode 148 10th Commandment 15 Conclusion (Part1) Russ
answers some Email and starts the approach to land the plane of the tenth
Commandment. Part 1 of 2Exodus 20:17 Contemporary English Version
(CEV) 17Do not want anything that
belongs to someone else. Don't want anyone's house, wife or husband, slaves,
oxen, donkeys or anything else. con.clu.sion
[kuhn-kloo-zhuhn], noun;1. the end or close;
final part.2. the last main division of a discourse, usually
containing a summing up of the points and a statement of opinion or decisio ... Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 148 10th Commandment 15 Conclusion (Part1)Russ
answers some Email and starts the approach to land the plane of the tenth
Commandment. Part 1 of 2Exodus 20:17 Contemporary English Version
(CEV) 17Do not want anything that
belongs to someone else. Don't want anyone's house, wife or husband, slaves,
oxen, donkeys or anything else. con·clu·sion
[kuhn-kloo-zhuhn], noun;1. the end or close;
final part.2. the last main division of a discourse, usually
containing a summing up of the points and a statement of opinion or decis ... Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 147 - The 10th Commandment, Conformity 2
Exodus 20:17
The Message (MSG) 17 No lusting after your neighbor's house—or wife or servant
or maid or ox or donkey. Don't set your heart on anything that is your
neighbor's. The WHY under the, what.Is
10th Commandments message a warning about unseen
conformity?Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 146 - The 10th Commandment and Conformity.
A real life
look at the social pressures to stay stuck and the reality of breaking the
10th commandment.con·form·i·ty from
Dictionary.com
noun, plural -ties.
1. action in accord with prevailing social standards, attitudes, practices, etc.
2. correspondence in form, nature, or character; agreement,
congruity, or accordance.
3. compliance or acquiescence; obedience.Exodus
20:17
T ... Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 145 – 10th Part 12 Zombies and Living Dead ThingsMy,
not blind faith becoming a Christian (not a Blood sucking religious person)
because of statics mathematics and irreducible complexity. Truth is what really
made me a believer? Hurt can build a stoney crusty layer around the
heart, if we choose to numb ourselves in the midtst of pain the result is
zombieland. Feeding on flesh without careing. Taking from others with out love,
shark attitude rather then servant. Why in zombie land is
there more flesh eating sharks then humble ... Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 144 – 10th Part 11- Beauty and the layers! The
youtube show? How does a shallow worldview of beauty lead to bitterness? What
are defining moments that shape our lives? And how does stubbornness in keeping
things safe and comfortable lead to a lack of heart change? “The
best and most beautiful things in this world
cannot be seen or even
heard,but must be felt with
the heart.”
~ Helen
KellerListen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 143 – 10th Commandment 10 Wait, so… What is beautiful?
What is
beautiful? So what is your object of beauty?Thou
shalt not covet thy neighbour's wife? What if shes hot?
beau·ti·ful [ bytəf'l ]
pleasing to
senses: very pleasing and impressive to
look at, listen to, touch, smell, or taste
excellent: very good or
enjoyable
beau·ti·ful·ly ADVERB
beau·ti·ful·ness NOUN
Word
Key: Synonyms
See
good-looking. Encarta
World English Dictionary"Before I can preach love, ... Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 142 - 10th Part 9 Steve and IJust
when you think your content, life gets messy and painful.Truth is life is
short. And life is being poured out every day as time goes by.A
special show with a closer look at Steve Jobs. What can we glean from this man
and what can he teach us about overcomming addictions having a purpose
driven life?Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 141 – The 10th Part 8 Good Grief
“People invented religion to
explain certain regularities in the behaviors of nature.” ”It is just that
He doesn't intervene” - Quotes
by Steven Halking.Acts 10:38-39
New King James Version (NKJV)
38 how God anointed Jesus of
Nazareth with the Holy Spirit and with power, who went about doing good and
healing all who were oppressed by the devil, for God was with
Him. 39 And we are witnesses of all things which He did both in the
land of the Jews and in Jerusalem, w ... Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 140 – 10th part 7 - Functional Savior QueensUnwanted
behaviors are like ants. Most people spend the bulk of their energy squishing
the ants on the surface. When itÂ’s the queen ants under the surface that give
birth to all the ants we see on the surface.Foo
Fighters lyrics "All My Life"All my life I've been searching for
somethingSomething never comes never
leads to nothingNothing satisfies but
I'm getting closeCloser to the prize at
the end of the rope“Do
you wish to rise? Begin by descending. You plan a tower that will pi ... Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 139 – 10th Part 6 - Functional SaviorsEpisode
139 – 10th Part 6 - Functional SaviorsThe
theology behind the psychology of addiction, are we looking for salvation, a God
or object of worship? Or do we just need a little Shelter?Addiction?!
Functional!? Yes because it worksÂ… for a little while.Gimme
Shelter lyrics, Rolling Stones - Oh, a storm is threatening My very life today
If I don't get some shelter Oh yeah, I'm gonna fade away.
“Courage
is a kind of salvation.” - Plato “At
every crisis in one's life, ... Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 138 - The 10th Part 5 - The Anatomy of a Desire.
Okay Im addicted, wait he's not an addict how do I get what he has? Is this
self help covetousness? Does the same system work for everyone?
If some of the roots of addiction are a strong, stubborn, habitually
reacurring desire, then approach is the right one to take towards life
change?
There's many systems and doctrines that offer hope. They can't all the right
can they?Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 137 – 10th Part 4 Functional hell.
How much Hell can I
take?! Dose God even care about the situation IÂ’m in?!Am I in earthbound
hell? How much does Love have to hurt?!C.S. Lewis The Problem
of Pain QuotesÂ…"Love is
something more stern and splendid than mere kindness.”
"Be sure that the ins and outs of your
individuality are no mystery to Him; and one day they will no longer be a
mystery to you.""It
is in their 'good' characters that novelists make, unawares, the most shocking
self- revelations.""The heart n ... Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 136 - 10th Part 3 - Never leave or forsake you.
In the reality of Micro
disasters, On the eve of Dr. PiperÂ’s prostate surgery, he wrote an article
titled “Don’t Waste
Your Cancer”. As I walk among
the ruins in Haiti and in Japan, his words
ring in my ears, applied to the context of natural disasters, “You will waste
your cancer [disaster] if you believe it is a curse and not a gift.” In
the midst of devastation, is that possible? What does that even look
like?Hebrews
13:5New King James Version (NKJV ... Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 135 10th Part 2 Satisfaction, Motivation and Commitment.
How can be encouraged and
developed? And what is really driving us? “When one door of happiness
closes, another opens, but often we look so long at the closed door that we do
not see the one that has been opened for us.”Helen KellerListen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 134 The 10th Part 1, God given attributions and personal characteristics.Episode
134 The 10th Commandment Part 1Artists RenderingÂ… God given
attributions and
personal characteristics.What
if we already posses what it takes to live free? The
tenth commandment states...“Thou shalt not covet thy neighbors house, thou shalt
not covet thy neighborÂ’s wife, nor his manservant, nor his maidservant, nor his
ox, nor his ass, nor any thing that is thy neighbors (NKJV)This
episode in remembrance of Amy Winehouse (14
September 1983 - 23
July 2011)Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 133 TBT Russ Concludes the 9th Commandment, Breaking Russ Shaw 2011.
There is a way things just are,
the Old Testament law is a giving the truth of how the creator of the universe
designed things to be. This is Good news, Right? Breaking the cycle of addiction
is much like breaking a horse. Or breaking Russ Shaw. Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 132 Independence Day 2011
Summer 2011
Challenge! Define Freedom!free·dom/
1. The power or
right to act, speak, or think as one wants without hindrance or
restraint.
2. Absence of
subjection to foreign domination or despotic
government.Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 131 The 9th Commandment TBT 4 Email and Evelyn Salt!Identity,
Sexual integrity, unwanted same sex attraction and persevering through the truth
of who we really are! Russ
goes over some listener email and answers in discreetly through the metaphor
of kick ass film Salt.Salt,
Angelina Jolie stars as Evelyn Salt, a CIA officer who swore an oath to duty, honor, and
country. When she is accused by a defector of being a Russian sleeper spy, Salt
goes on the run to clear her name and ultimately prove she is a patriot. Using
all he ... Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 130 The 9th Commandment TBT 3 Email response show.
TBT3,
Russ answers some email and goes over some notes on the 9th
commandment from the lectures by Dr. John Frame. TBT? A lie does not have to be true to make
a deep devastating impact. It simply has to be believed. Realizing sexual
addiction is a symptom of a deeper infection. Healing from it is going to
require focusing the bulk of our efforts on treating the infection over the
symptoms. And seeing where we have traded truth for a lies.
Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 129 The 9th TBT 2 Psychopathology, Medication and Addiction.
Truth
Be Told! I donÂ’t want to do the things I keep
doing! HELP! Listener
asks via Email question; could my compulsive sexual behavior a symptom of an
abnormal or
maladaptive psychological disorder? Can psychotropic
medications help get this monkey off my
back?Truth from a reliable source on the subject, Yale university.
Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 128 The 9th Commandment Part 6 TBT Getting Help.
Cognitive
Dissonance is the
feeling of uncomfortable tension which comes from holding two conflicting
thoughts in the mind at the same time.Addiction is that dissonance in the
soul. I donÂ’t want to do the things I keep doing! HELP! Truth Be
ToldÂ… Can we take a good hard honest look at how we solve the
dissonance of unwanted behavior? Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 127 – The 9th and the Truth about Redemption, Mike Wilkerson interview.Faith and theology meet the real
life world of woundedness, Recovery and addictions.My interview with Mike
Wilkerson, one of the leaders and founders of Redemption groups at
Mars Hill Church
in Seattle,
about his new book, Redemption: Freed
by Jesus from the Idols We Worship and the Wounds We
Carry.Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 126 - The Ninth Commandment & Exposing the lies of the beautiful people.Exposing the lies of the beautiful people is really revealing our
own "dogmatic assumptions". Faith is not ultimately
found in intellectually stuffing doctrine in from the outside. Faith takes root in the
heart and grows from the inside out. That growth takes place when an
individual, behind their own eyes (not diverting off into the cup and ball trick
of OPM other peoples morality) has the courage to examine their own individual
heart effects and realize what they ... Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 125 The 9th Commandment… The Death of an Enemy.Addiction... My Own Worst Enemy? What about other people in
the world? Should we celebrate the death of another humen being who is our
enemy? Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 124 – The 9th Commandment, The Truth about history.Relapse happens when
we put second things first. Change the heart and behavior follows. Change
behavior first and the heart will eventually do what it wants to
do, over being forced
to do what it begrudgingly has to do. CS Lewis - "You don't
get 2nd things by putting 2nd things 1st! You get 2nd things by
putting first things first."St.
Augustine - "Put God
on the throne of your heart and do exactly what you want to
do" Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 123 - The 9th Commandment (Part 1) Truth, lies and the short perception span.
Exodus 20:16 (New King James
Version) 16 “You shall not bear false witness
against your neighbor.
true
Adjective: In accordance
with fact or reality: "a true story"; "of course it's true".
Verb: Bring (an object,
wheel, or other construction) into the exact shape, alignment, or position
required.1781 &n ... Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 122 Ending 8th and Starting 9th (Part 3 of 3) Placing hope in and walking toward real freedom.
One's
daily surface identitys authenticity occurs when one's emotional expression is
let out and put on display. Feelings build up and rush out of the heart like a
fire hose. Many times for the addicted person, Its exposing the fact that; where
we are rooted is not deep enough to insure any sense of long term fullness, rest
or security. Hope needs to be placed in a deeper foundation of solid
truth.Lifehouse broken lyrics:I'm falling apart,
I'm barely breathingWith a broken heart tha ... Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 121 Ending 8th starting 9th Part 2 from Steal and/or Lieing to Recovering the truth.
Mark 4:22 (New King James
Version) For there is nothing hidden which will not be revealed, nor has
anything been kept secret but that it should come to light.Quotes from
the film “Inception” Cobb: What is the
most resilient parasite? Bacteria? A virus? An intestinal worm? An idea.
Resilient... highly contagious. Once an idea has taken hold of the brain it's
almost impossible to eradicate. An idea that is fully formed - fully understood
- that sticks; right in there somewhere.  ... Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 120 – Concluding the 8th starting the 9th Part 1You know
that it would be untrue You
know that I would be a liar If I
was to say to you Girl, we couldn't
get much higher Come on baby, light
my fire Come on baby, light my
fire Try to set the night on
fireThe time to hesitate is
through No time to wallow in the
mire Try now we can only
lose And our love become a funeral
pyre Come on baby, light my
fire Come on baby, light my
fire How do we stop stealing when stealing ... Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 119 – Theft and Disgrace, Guest author of Rid of my Disgrace, Justin Holcomb'I
thought I had gotten over the abuses in my past'—I had forgiven my abusers,
stopped feeling like a victim, and felt like I was a stronger person. After
reading Rid
of My Disgrace,
I realized there were still underlying issues I hadnÂ’t dealt with that were
preventing me from getting close to other people and, worst of all, preventing
me from having a deeper relationship with God. Each chapter not only discussed
each emotion that had been secretly weighing on me, but also sh ... Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode118 - Stolen Valentines Day 8th Commandment (Part 6)
Proverbs
5 and Cultural Normative conformity.Love,
Marriage, Men, Wives and perfect?! 19 a
lovely deer, a graceful doe.Let her breasts fill you at all times with
delight;be
intoxicated always
in her love.20 Why
should you be intoxicated, my son, with a forbidden woman and embrace the bosom of an adulteress? Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 117 - Valentines day Theft! (Part 1) Proverbs 5 (8th Part 5)
Valentine's
Day can be fraught with danger of
identity theft.Proverbs
5 (ESV)Proverbs 5:1 My
son, be attentive to my wisdom;incline your ear to my
understanding,2 that you may keep discretion,and your lips may
guard knowledge.3 For the lips of a forbidden woman drip
honey,and her speech is smoother than oil,4 but in the end she
is bitter as wormwood,sharp as a two-edged sword.5 Her feet go down
to death;her steps follow the path to  ... Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 116, 8th Commandment (Part 4) ID Thief (Part 2)Dr.
Tim Keller says in the book "The Reason for God":Sin is the despairing refusal to find your deepest
identity in your relationship and service to God. Sin is seeking to become
oneself, to get an identity apart from him. . . . Most people think of sin
primarily as “breaking divine rules,” but Like the Danish philosopher
Kierkegaard knows
that the very first of the Ten Commandments is to “have no other gods before
me.” So, according to the Bible, the primary way to define sin is ... Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 115 The 8th Commandment - Identity Theft?!
My faith is not in
the hackersÂ’ ability to crack my encryption attempts.My faith is in the One
who has redeamed me and my knolage of that keeps me safe. Therefore my own
efforts at protecting myself are minimal at best. Either He is our
Keeper, or He isnÂ’t. Yes, we should not be presumptuous and should use Common
Sense, but we have lost sight of what true common sense is. How do we define
LOVE? And as a result, how will we demonstrate LOVE in response? If we are
driven by dar ... Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 114 – The 8th Commandment (Part 2) Robbing for Survival?!
Why do people steal? And what
doses robbing for survival have to do with sexual integrity? Are
we prolonging our recovery with short term trigger removal? Are we hopeless with
all the triggers in the world? Russ addresses some secrets of long term sexual
integrity. John 10:10 The thief comes only to
kill steal and destroy, I come that they may have life and have it more
abundantly. - JesusListen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 113 – The 8th Commandment, Part 1
Exodus
20:15 (King James Version) Thou shalt not steal.Change and/or theft. Growth in
to full life or short term theft for needs met today! Do
we take what has not been worked for to seal in a sense of short term comfort
and escape from that we fear?Deeper
social norms, breaking the habit of “its out there”Proverbs 22:3 The
prudent sees danger and hides himself,but the simple go on and suffer for
it.4 The reward for humility and fear of the Lord is riches and
... Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 112 / Ending the 7th preview to start up the 8th
The John Frame notes on the
7th and 8th commandment in the scope of sexual
ethics.Why would we what to stealing what is free? Inception is a 2010
American science
fiction and psychological
thriller film written,
produced, and directed by Christopher
Nolan. The main character Cobb is offered a chance to regain his old life
in exchange for an almost impossible task: inception, the planting of an
idea into one's subconscious.Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 111 Intense Love The 7th Commandment (Part 6)
Is sin cheating on God? If Jesus
is close and involved in our day by day lives. Then how does our relationship
with him stay faithful. Ephesians 2:4-10 But God, being
rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us, even when we
were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ by grace you
have been saved and raised us up with him and seated us with him in the heavenly
places in Christ Jesus, so that in the coming ages he might show the
imme ... Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 110 – Emo Affairs?! A wide angle look at adultery.
With the startling
increase in emotional affairs, let me reveal some of the motives of the heart
under the surface and expose the fule tank of our desires for such “affairs” and
why it is actually breaking the 7th commandment and on a real
intimate heart level it is one of the most painful forms of adultery.
Recommitting our Hearts to a "till death do us part" attitude.A
shout out to rememberingourvows.com and kenbirks.com Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 109 – The 7th Commandment – Adultery
What
is Adultery? And what is spiritual debt? Adultery is one of the
bloodiest of sins. ItÂ’s a sin that literally breaks the heart of the offended
party. Requiring the offender to be sentenced to a painful heart level
response “what have I become?” and
more importantly “who am I going to be now?”Adultery
–noun, plural -ter·ies.
voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and someone other than his  ... Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 108 - The 7th Commandment - What really is an affair? Defining
affairs and adultery! What does it really mean to break the 7th
Commandment?Why
do some churches focus so much energy on divorce care?"Thou shalt
not commit adultery" Exodus 20:14. This has always been God's law!Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 107 The 7th Commandment (Part 2) The Vampire Metaphor (Part 2)
The 7th Commandment SeriesÂ… The
Vampire Metaphor (Part 2)Adultery; What
does it mean to cheat on God our creator and the lover of our soul? car·di·ol·ogy (kär′dē
äl′ə jē) Nown; The branch of medicine dealing with the heart, its functions,
and its diseases.3 Heart clogging Vampires to put to
death! 1.
The Quitting, Checking out, Abandoner.2. The Isolator with attacks of
desolation and Withdrawn, self imposed Aloneness.3. The Me First Blood
... Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 106 – The 7th Commandment (Part 1) – The Vampire Metaphor (Part 1)
The first of the 7th
Commandment seriesÂ… Vampire Metaphor!God Smack - Vampires LyricsFew creatures of the night have
captured our imagination like vampires...What explains our enduring
fascination with vampires?What is it about the vampire myth that explains
our interest?Is it the overtones of sexual lust, power,
control?I attempt to answer
this question as well as so history of the Vampire Myth.Repentance is
putting to death the life draining, blood sucking vampire nature in all o ... Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 105 – Gearing up for The 7th Commandment.What
is the plan for the 7th commandment?Pit Bulls and Nannies and
What is a short perception span?
Romans 3 (amp bible) 28For we hold
that a man is justified and made upright by faith independent of and distinctly
apart from good deeds (works of the Law). [The observance of the Law has nothing
to do with justification.]
29Or is God
merely [the God] of Jews? Is He not the God of Gentiles also? Yes, of Gentiles
also,
30Since it is
one and the sam ... Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 104 The 6th Commandment (Part 4) short term vs. Long term Victory! ex-addict, War Metaphor! (Part 2)
Air War and ground War! Action and
Heart. Ending the 6th commandment on and encouraging note!
ItÂ’s not what you do but who you are. Who your are changes what you do
from the inside out.Air war is
seeing a hostile area flying in to attack it from the air. To declare War on my
enemy!Ground war is getting to
the hostile area and dropping troops to gather intelligence about it from the
ground.Air War =
Having the courage to take action!Ground War = having the courage to let
Jesus cha ... Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 103 - The 6th Commandment (part 3) War Metaphor!Yes,
Do it! Commit to the process! Get up and Fight! Never Quit!And what does it
mean to be addicted to war?!When it comes to fighting sexual addiction
what is the air war and ground war?Getting honest about fighting the
systems that lead to relapse. Behavior and heart! Painting beliefs on the
canvas of reason!Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 102 the 6th commandment (part 2) A conclusion of self.A
Breaking of the Sixth Commandment by the act of a human being intentionally
causing his or her own death. As a former deeply, powerfully addicted sex
addict Russ shares his own thoughts of suicide and the light he struggled to
walk towards.Jesus compassion toward the people at the end of there rope
and his wake up call for the religious!Luke
7:41-47 (the message bible) "Two men were in debt to a banker. One
owed five hundred silver pieces, the other fifty. Neither of them could pa ... Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | Visit Website Episode 101 - The 6th Commamdment (part 1) Sexual addiction and anger
Sexual addiction and anger! What
are the real life connections? Is anger
really is a huge underlying issue for people struggling
with sexually
addictive behaviors? Is there an addiction under
the addiction to sex that is fueling all our destructive addictions we see on
the surface? Is anger bad or does it do you well to be angry
sometimes?And what does this have to do with the 6th
commandment? How did Jesus define murder in the Sermon on the
Mount?Listen | Listen in your iPhone | Download | View full cache | |