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Welcome to Kinsey Confidential - Your opportunity to ask questions and have them answered by experts in sexual health and behavior from the Kinsey Institute at Indiana University. You can visit us online and submit your questions at kinseyconfidential.org. Updated every Monday.

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Q&A: Do Nocturnal Emissions Cause Memory Loss?

There are many myths about sexuality, masturbation, orgasms and ejaculation that simply aren't true.

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Q&A: Maximizing Sexual Pleasure Through Masturbation

A key way to enhance your masturbation is to engage your mind. Try to think of something that you find sexy.

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Q&A: Penis Size, Problem With Erections

Stress has been known to play a role in men and women's sexual function, including erections for men.

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Q&A: Vibrators In The Mail?

Sex toys are very regularly sent in the US Mail. They can also be purchased in most states through adult bookstores and even, in some cases, local drug stores.

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Q&A: Boyfriend Wants To Try A Penis Cage

There's no strict list of what is and isn't considered BDSM so if your boyfriend doesn't consider it BDSM, then it's not BDSM to him.

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Q&A: My Vagina Tightens Up And I Can't Have Sex

Some women, when they try to experience vaginal penetration, find that they feel unable to accept their partner's penis or fingers into their vagina.

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Q&A Intensity Of G Spot Orgasms

Female ejaculation - which some people call "squirting" - happens as a result of G Spot stimulation or other types of sexual stimulation to some women.

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Q&A Can I Transmit Jock Itch During Sex?

Jock itch is not normally considered a sexually transmissible infection, or STI. However, that doesn't mean that it can't be transmitted during sex.

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Q&A After Sex, Vagina Is Itchy & Puffy

How do you know what's going on? Aside from checking in with a healthcare provider, you might try experimenting

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Q&A: I Get Aroused During Gynecological Exams

As long as you act like a patient, rather than someone who is turning a gyn exam into a sexual event, then this arousal can probably be managed quite well.

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Q&A: My Stamina Bothers My Sexual Partners

Many women are quite satisfied with 5 or 10 minutes of vaginal intercourse, in spite of what is often portrayed in Hollywood movies and mainstream porn moves.

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Q&A: HIV Positive & Having Trouble Achieving Orgasm

A number of factors can influence men's orgasm and ejaculation, including certain prescription and over the counter medications, depression, stress and anxiety.

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Q&A Confused About Ex-Girlfriend's Sexual Orientation

Maybe she feels that she truly is bisexual or lesbian but ultimately wants to be dating, in a relationship with or married to a man.

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Q&A: 21 Years Old, Having Trouble Getting An Erection

Often, young men have erection problems that are largely caused by performance anxiety.

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Q&A: Getting Over Shyness About Phone Sex

By looking for new ways to communicate about sex, and to share sex together, you can deepen intimacy and have a more pleasurable sex life together.

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Q&A: How Do I Find Out If My Girlfriend Is A Virgin Like Me?

Scientific research has also demonstrated that people have different definitions about what it means to be a virgin.

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Q&A I Was A Virgin, But Didn't Bleed When I Had Sex

There are several reasons why women may not notice any bleeding during their first sexual intercourse.

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Q&A: My Boyfriend Likes It When I Have Sex With Other Men, I Don't

These are common elements of what are called cuckoldry relationships, also called the "hot wife" phenomenon in which a woman either pretends to have sex with other men or actually has sex with other men and her male partner (such as a boyfriend or husband) is aroused as a result.

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Q&A: Questionnaire To Determine Sex Likes And Dislikes

I didn't know of a comprehensive list of sex likes and dislikes, so I made my own list and posted it on my blog at: mysexprofessor.com. Although it doesn't list every possible thing one can do sexually, there are more than 60 behaviors listed so it's a good start.

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Q&A: I Orgasm With My Vibrator, Not When Someone Else Touches Me

Vibrator stimulation can be pretty intense and some women (and men) respond far more easily to it than hand, mouth, or intercourse stimulation. It may be that you have a higher threshold for stimulation, and vibration more easily brings you to orgasm.

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Q&A: My Girlfriend Ejaculates When She Orgasms

Some people like to keep their sheets and mattresses as free of fluids as possible. If that's true for you, try laying a towel on the bed before you have sex. Some people do this as a way to avoid getting various sexual fluids on their sheets either because they don't like the wet spot or they worry about trapping fluids in their mattress.

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Q&A: I Feel Guilty About My Same-Sex Attractions

The way people live their lives and the way they feel doesn't always line up into mutually exclusive boxes. Sometimes women, for example, can only imagine themselves partnering with, or being romantically involved with, men and yet they feel sexually attracted to some women. Does that make them lesbian? Straight? Bisexual?

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Q&A: Do Adult Men Have Wet Dreams?

Some recent research suggests that some men and women may be prone to sexual behavior while they sleep - this has been called sexsomnia and is linked to unusual sleep cycles.

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Q&A: What Can I Do To Help My Partner Orgasm During Intercourse?

It is sometimes said that sex is like a dance in the way that it's often more fun and more pleasurable if two people are attuned to teach others' bodies. Sometimes the focus is on one person, dipping or being dipped, or turning around in circles. But the other person gets a turn to shine, too.

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Q&A: How Can You Tell If You're Asexual?

The term "asexuality" typically refers to organisms that reproduce without having sex. When it comes to human sexuality, however, researchers tend to use the term "asexual" to describe individuals who do not experience sexual attraction.

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Q&A: Do Women And Men Received Pleasure From Anal Penetration?

In our recent survey, we found that 45% of women in some age groups had received anal sex, but that doesn't mean they all received pleasure from it.

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Q&A: Are There Adverse Effects To Frequent Masturbation?

Masturbation is a common way for both men and women to enjoy the bodies they live in. Some people find that masturbation helps them to relax after a stressful day or to fall asleep at night. Masturbation can also help men and women to learn what they life, in terms of sexual touch and pace, so that they can share this information with a partner.

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Q&A: Pulling Out, Birth Control Pill, And Pregnancy Risk

You're describing a situation in which a man and a woman are using two forms of birth control: the withdrawal method, which involves a man pulling his penis out of a woman's vagina before he ejaculates, and the birth control pill, which involves a woman taking a hormonal birth control pill every day.

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Q&A: I Don't Get Wet And I Have Never Experienced Orgasm

Sometimes medications - such as low-dose estrogen birth control pills - are thought to contribute to difficulties with vaginal lubrication. Other times, certain medical conditions may play a role. Depending on the situation, a healthcare provider may recommend the use of a vaginal moisturizer to help maintain a sense of vaginal wetness and comfort.

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Q&A: I Don't Know What Pleases Guys And I Lack Confidence In Bed

One reason I'd recommend asking your partner what he likes in terms of intercourse, oral sex or hand stimulation is because you're trying to please him -not some hypothetical man you're reading about in a book or magazine. That means that he's the only person who can tell you what he likes sexually.

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Q&A: Losing My Virginity To An Escort Before Finding A Girlfriend

Research studies are quite clear that sex workers - particularly those that are working illegally, which most sex workers in the US are doing given laws that prohibit exchanging sex for money - tend to be more likely to have sexually transmissible infections (STI) such as chlamydia, gonorrhea, HIV, and herpes.

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Q&A: I Experience Vaginal Tearing During Sex, Even With Lubricant

You might try having sex in the woman on top position so that you can control the penetration. And before trying again, you might take several days - even as long as a week - off of sex to give your body time to heal. Perhaps your vaginal entrance has not had time to heal and so it keeps tearing again in the same place.

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Q&A: If I Shave My Pubic Hair, Am I Less Likely To Get Pubic Lice?

pubic lice are relatively uncommon and are not necessarily a reason to remove one's pubic hair. Many men and women enjoy having some amount of pubic hair. It can feel sensual to gently tug on one's own or a partner's pubic hair and many people find the presence of pubic hair to be quite sexy and erotic.

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Q&A: Clit Sensitivty During Sex, Mixture Between Pleasure And Pain

The female clitoris is full of nerve endings and is consequently one of the most sensitive spots on a woman's body. Because of this enormous sensitivity, some women enjoy direct stimulation of their glans clitoris. For this same reason of sensitivity, however, some women do not enjoy direct stimulation as it may feel uncomfortable or even painful.

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Q&A: Anal Sex And Long Term Health Concerns

As anal sex is considered a high risk sexual behavior for passing sexually transmissible infections (STI), you may want to use condoms during anal sex should you and your boyfriend ever decide to go from having a monogamous relationship to an open relationship.

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Q&A: Do Women Experience Nocturnal 'Erections' Similar To Men's?

Researchers ultimately focused on studying changes in blood flow to women's genitals during sleep. They found that women experienced increased in blood flow to their genitals during REM sleep, just as men experience increases in blood flow to their penis, which contributes to their erections.

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Dan Savage Interview, Part 5: Musical Theater

Dan Savages talks about his love of musical theater and which role he would love to play on stage. And, which authors and blogs does he read?

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Q&A: I Experience Pain During Sex. How Can I Learn To Relax?

For many years, vaginismus was considered to be a condition that involved the muscles around the vagina going into involuntary spasms, thus preventing penetration. However, research has been mixed on this feature of the condition, with quite a few doctors and researchers being unable to find any evidence of actual muscle spasms.

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Dan Savage Interview, Part 4: I Used To Hate Straight People

Dan Savage talks about how his ideas on sexuality and relationships have evolved over the past 20 years of writing the Savage Love column.

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Q&A: Do Women Experience Nocturnal 'Erections' Similar To Men's?

Researchers ultimately focused on studying changes in blood flow to women's genitals during sleep. They found that women experienced increased in blood flow to their genitals during REM sleep, just as men experience increases in blood flow to their penis, which contributes to their erections.

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Q&A: Side Effects From Penis Enlargement Pills

When I was almost 16 I took pills that were supposed to make my penis get bigger. I took them for one month and my penis never got any bigger. But now I am 20 and my penis hasn't ever grown since I was about 17. Do you think that taking the pills caused me damage in some way?

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Dan Savage Interview, Part 2: It Gets Better Project

I felt this way after hearing about Billy Lucas' suicide and Justin Aberg's before him this summer in Minnesota. The reaction as a gay adult is always, "God, I wish I could have talked to that kid and just be able to tell him it gets better," but knowing you would never get permission; knowing you would never be invited to talk to these kids.

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Q&A: The Missionary Position, What Am I Supposed To Be Doing?

I was looking around on the internet and I saw a quote that read "Missionary is not an excuse to do nothing" and I feel like that's me. I don't know what to do while my boyfriend and I are having sex and I think I just lay there. What am I supposed to be doing?

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Dan Savage Interview, Part 1: Don't Ask Don't Tell, Gay Marriage

I was in the United Kingdom a few years ago and I read all the papers over there and watched the news and it occured to me that I'm not reading anything about the gay thing. It was just like, of course not, because they don't throw gay people out of the military and they have employment protections and they have civil partnerships.

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Q&A: Avoiding Boring Sex In Lesbian Relationships

My girlfriend and I have been in a lesbian relationship for nine months. She had dated several girls before me and had sex with a few of them. She was my first. There was a lot of sex in the beginning of our relationship, but as it progressed the sex has dwindled to being once every two or three weeks.

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Q&A: Virginity And Overcoming Uncomfortable Sex

My boyfriend and I have been together for a couple of months. I'm a virgin, but he isn't, and I thought I was ready to sleep with him, but when we tried, as much as he tried to relax me and give me lots of foreplay, it was so uncomfortable that I actually tried to ignore what was happening down there.

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Q&A: Sexual Orientation Confusion

I am a 19 year old male. I am mostly attracted to females physically and a little bit emotionally. However, I have a strong attraction to males sexually - but not emotionally. I am so confused, I don't know whether I'm straight, Bi, or gay. Please help me.

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Q&A: Embarassed About Buying Sex Toys, Sex Toy Parties

I'd like to buy a vibrator, but I have no idea how to go about getting one. I'm too embarrassed to go into a store and pick one out, but I am also hesitant about buying one online, as I bought one off a website recently that totally didn't work for me and I don't want to waste more money!

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Q&A: Why Would Someone Call Out Another Person's Name During Sex?

As a sex educator and columnist, thousands of people have talked to me about their sex lives. And I have heard from many people who have accidentally called out someone's name during sex. In some cases, it was a total accident. They claimed that they weren't thinking of this other person and the name just slipped out.

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Q&A: Can Straight Men Be Curious About Gay Sex Without Being Gay?

When I hear terms such as "gay curious" or "bi-curious", the people using them are often talking about wanting to explore sexually with other people - not just being curious in an academic or hypothetical way. Granted, some people might use the term without knowing this meaning and they may simply just want to know what it is that gay men do.

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Q&A: Death Grip During Masturbation - Will It Translate To Sex?

Some men masturbate by rubbing against their bed or pillows and then find themselves in a similar situation in which sex with a partner feels very different. It can take time to learn to orgasm or ejaculate from sex with a partner.

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Q&A: My Husband Tested Positive For Gonorrhea. Did He Cheat On Me?

Some couples value monogamy and commit to only have sex with each other. Other couples decide to have some degree of an open relationship, which may allow for one or both of them to have sex with other people.

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Q&A: I Don't Enjoy Touching My Husband Or Giving Him Oral Sex.

Although most men and women in the US have tried oral sex, not everyone likes it and not everyone keeps doing it. If you and your husband don't like oral sex, then it probably makes it easier that you both feel the same way. It can be more difficult when one person likes oral sex a lot and the other person in the relationship doesn't like oral sex.

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Q&A: Decreased Libido and Vaginal Lubrication. Anything I Can Do?

Some women experience vaginal dryness after taking low dose birth control pills. Also, it's common for women to feel more dry if they start having sex shortly after a warm shower or bath, if they're taking allergy medications such as antihistamines, or while they are breastfeeding.

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Q&A: How Can I Increase The Volume Of My Semen And Make It Squirt?

Because a man's pelvic muscles are linked to the power of his ejaculation, and his orgasms, it may be that pelvic floor muscle exercises, such as Kegel exercises, can help to improve the thrust of a man's ejaculate - to help him squirt more than drip.

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Q&A: I Experience Vulva Pain Before And After Sex. What Can I Do?

There are many different causes for pain during sex. Sometimes, women and their partners spend very little time in foreplay, not leaving the vagina enough time to lubricate naturally, which can be painful. If a woman has a male partner who has a large penis, or is she has a small vagina, the genital fit can be painful too.

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Q&A: I Suffer From Delayed Ejaculation When I Have Sex

It is common for men who experience delayed ejaculation to feel frustrated or anxious about sex. Unfortunately, anxiety and stress can make it even more difficult to ejaculate.

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Q&A: My First Sex Was With A Prostitute, I Did Not Get An Erection

It sounds like you two just walked into a room and took your clothes off. Though that might be exciting for some people, many men and women find that spending time in foreplay helps them to feel more aroused. Foreplay can help men to get an erection and it can help women to lubricate or become "wet".

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Q&A: I Have Bladder Prolapse. Can This Be Fixed?

It can take around 2 months to heal well enough to begin having vaginal intercourse again. Research suggests that women often see an improvement in their sexual lives, particularly if their prolapse issues were getting in the way of sex before they had surgery.

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Q&A: I Have Never Experienced Orgasm. Is Something Wrong With Me?

Some women find that they may masturbate for 30 minutes or an hour or longer, quite a few times, before they experience a release of sexual tension in what feels like an orgasm to them. Other women prefer to use a vibrator to help learn to orgasm, as vibrators can often make it easier to learn to orgasm.

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Q&A: He Ejaculated In My Face. Could I Have An STD In My Eye?

When men masturbate, they sometimes accidentally squirt semen into their eye. And men and women who have male sex partners have often been in this situation, too, so it's an issue that many people can sympathize or even empathize with.

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Q&A: Do Certain Fruits Make You Taste Sweet?

I am not aware of any scientific research that has been published in peer-reviewed journals that suggest any of these methods actually work to make semen or vaginal fluids taste sweeter or generally more pleasant. That said, I am also not aware of any research that discounts these methods - in other words, they are pretty much untested and unknown.

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Q&A: I Tore My Frenulum. Should I Be Concerned?

Often, men find that if they keep the cut clean, apply an over the counter antibiotic cream and avoid further irritation from partner sex or masturbation, that it will heal on its own within a week or two.

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Q&A: I Had Never Experienced Painful Sex Until Recently

As women near menopause, estrogen levels drop and women may be more prone to experience pain or discomfort during sex. As the vagina becomes more dry, women are also prone to vaginal tearing, which can result in small amounts of bleeding during sex.

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Q&A: I Am Interested In The Study Of Sex

If you're curious about working as a sex researcher, you can approach the study of sex from any number of disciplines including public health, psychology, education, sociology, anthropology, medicine, film studies, history, women's studies, gender studies, telecommunications, biology, or whatever else you can dream of.

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Q&A: What Is The Purpose Of Female Ejaculation?

It's generally acknowledged that some women release a larger amount of fluids during sexual excitement or orgasm. We also know that in most cases, these fluids don't seem to be urine.

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Q&A: I Do Not Experience Orgasm When I Ejaculate

Some men report having noticed a lack of pleasure or orgasm after they start taking medications, such as certain antidepressants or other medications. Sometimes this side effect of a lack of pleasure or orgasm can persist for a long time even after they stop taking the medication.

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Q&A: Hand Job, Fingering, And Pregnancy Risk

If you and your boyfriend are definitely not planning on having intercourse, then your sole form of birth control may be keeping his penis and his semen away from your vagina.

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Q&A: My Wife Has A Sore Near Her Anus. Could It Be Herpes?

Herpes sores can show up a long time after infection. Some people don't notice their first sore until months or even many years after infection.

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Q&A: Could Natural Supplements Help To Increase My Sexual Desire?

The supplements that are currently on the market have not been subject to the sorts of medical and scientific tests that one would have to undergo if they were marketing the substance as a medication. Therefore there is no way to tell if the substance is safe, if it works, or what the side effects are.

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Q&A: His Erection Goes Away When He Puts On A Condom

On one hand, using a condom can help both people to feel more relaxed and confident about sex knowing that they are taking measures to greatly reduce the risk of pregnancy and some sexually transmissible infections, or STIs. On the other hand, using a condom changes sensation for men.

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Q&A: My Husband And I Have A Power Struggle When It Comes To Sex

Sometimes couples engage in power struggles without talking about it. People may withhold sex from one another as punishment or perhaps they may give in to sex, but act as if they're not enjoying it as a way of getting back at their partner.

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Q&A: Is It Unhealthy To Fantasize About My Ex When I Masturbate?

People have different reactions to dealing with masturbating about their ex. Some men and women try to stop thinking about their ex at all costs and may actively try to think of other people while they masturbate, or to focus on others by watching porn or reading erotica, to help them imagine sexual situations that involve other individuals.

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Q&A: I Am Scared Of Having Sex Because Of Pregnancy and Bleeding

Though not having had intercourse by age 25 is less common these days, some people choose to wait to have sex until they find the right person, relationship or situation. There is nothing wrong with not having had vaginal intercourse by age 25.

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Q&A: I Fantastize About My Wife Having Sex With Other Men

Some people fantasize about their partner having sex with another person. Such sexual fantasies may involve threesomes or larger numbers of people involved in group sex or orgies. Other times people fantasize about their partner is cheating on them.

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Q&A: I Bled During Fingering. Should I Be Concerned?

To reduce the risk of vaginal cuts in the future, you may want to use a water-based or silicone-based lubricant, which can help to reduce friction. Also, some women find it more comfortable to "sit" on their partner's finger so that they can maintain control over the pace and roughness of fingering.

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Q&A: My Boyfriend Always Has An Erection, Masturbates Constantly

Compulsive masturbation is experienced by a minority of men, but for some men masturbation almost seems to take over their life. They may find that masturbation gets in the way of their ability to develop or maintain a satisfying romantic relationship or that it gets in the way of friendships or even getting work done.

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Q&A: Have I Been Desensitized To Sex?

Some surveys of parents, teachers and caregivers suggest that the majority of young children touch their own genitals and many also play age-appropriate games with other children, such as playing doctor, I'll show you mine or "mommy and daddy" (or "mommy and mommy" or "daddy and daddy" as the case may be).

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Q&A: What Are The Chances Of Contracting An STI From A Sex Worker?

Prostitutes who work at legal brothels are required to be regularly tested for infections. If they are found to have Chlamydia, gonorrhea or syphilis, then they have to stay out of work until they have been treated and tested again, and found to be negative for the infection on re-testing.

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Q&A: What Are The Chances She Is Pregnant?

If a man recently ejaculated and then soon after, got aroused, it is theoretically possible that if any sperm were left over in his urethra from his last ejaculate, then the pre-ejaculatory fluids could pick the sperm up and carry them through the urethra.

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Q&A: How Do Women Experience Multiple Orgasms?

We don't fully understand why some women experience multiple orgasms and others do not. In part, it may have to do with expectations about sex and orgasm. After all, even one orgasm is difficult for some women to experience, so some women may be happy with one orgasm and may not even try to have a second orgasm after their first.

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Q&A: My Partner Experiences Pain During Penetrative Sex

There are many different reasons why a woman may experience chronic genital pain. Some women may have skin sensitivities or allergies that cause the genital skin to become easily irritated in response to chemicals in laundry detergent, bath wash, soap, lubricants, or condoms.

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Q&A: Dating Women But Fantasizing About Men. Straight, Gay, or Bi?

Dr. Alfred Kinsey felt that there was fluidity in human sexuality and that more people would be attracted to both sexes if society was more accepting and embracing of the diversity of human sexual attraction, interest and behavior.

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Q&A: Is It Possible To Orgasm By Intense Concentration Alone?

Although physical stimulation is a common part of the orgasm picture, it isn't everything. Even the most pleasurable forms of touch don't always lead to orgasm unless a person is feeling psychologically stimulated or aroused, or concentrating on sexual ideas or thoughts, as well.

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Q&A: My Roommate Used My Vibrator Without Telling Me

One of the health-related problems with sharing sex toys is that it is not known how long certain bacteria or viruses can survive in sex toy materials. That means that sharing sex toys can result in sharing infections.

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Q&A: My Boyfriend Has A Tough Time Staying Hard During Sex

young men often get erections for no particular reason and sometimes during times when they wish they wouldn't. As they grow older and begin being sexual with a partner, they may have the experience of not always getting erections when they want one, even if they feel sexually excited.

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Q&A: I Chafed My Penis When I Was Masturbating

Because the genitals are kept in a warm, moist area, under clothing, and can be exposed to urine and fecal matter, they sometimes require special care so that cuts, tears or chafing heal well and the potential for pleasurable sensitivity returns.

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Q&A: Pulling Out During Sex: Does Pre-Cum Pose a Pregnancy Risk?

Pre-ejaculatory fluids do not contain any sperm. They are clear fluids that come from small glands inside of a man's body. These pre-ejaculatory fluids are released into a man's urethra when he becomes aroused and they help to lubricate the urethra.

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Q&A: What Can I Do To Get Pregnant?

Men tend to have higher sperm quality when they are of a healthy weight and are non-smokers. Women also tend to have healthier pregnancies and lower risk deliveries when they are of a healthy weight.

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Q&A: I Have Never Experienced Orgasm. What Do You Suggest I Do?

The clitoris extends backward into the body in two branches that may be stimulated from vaginal sex or other types of stimulation. This knowledge alone may give you different ideas for how to approach your body with ideas for stimulation.

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Q&A: Premature Ejaculation In Sex: Is It Because I Masturbate?

Men's bodies make sperm and the fluids that make up semen on an ongoing basis. Sperm only make up a small portion of the volume of semen. Much of a man's seminal fluids come from his prostate gland and other glands called the cowper's glands and seminal vesicles.

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Q&A: Can I Get Pregnant If A Guy Pulls Out Before He Ejaculates?

Men cannot reliably squeeze all of their semen out of their penis. Sometimes it trickles out a few moments later. Also, there may be sperm that are further down and then, when he is inside you and gets aroused again, his pre-ejaculatory fluids may sweep up the sperm and carry it outside his body and into your vagina.

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Q&A: How Legitimate Is Sex Addiction?

Although the term "sex addiction" is often used in the media, it is not used as commonly among scientific circles. That's not to say that sex researchers don't encounter people with problems related to sex. In fact, it's quite clear that a small proportion of people experience their sexuality in a way that may feel out of control or addictive.

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Q&A: Could I Get Pregnant From Dry Sex With My Boyfriend?

There is not always a clear line between "dry sex" and intercourse. Sometimes couples get very excited during their sex play and they may experiment with getting closer to each other's genitals.

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Q&A: Could Condoms Help Delay My Ejaculation During Sex?

Benzocaine works by slightly numbing or desensitizing the skin on a man's penis. By reducing sensation during sex, condoms with benzocaine may help men to last longer by several minutes.

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Q&A: Why Don't I Get Turned On When My Husband Rubs My Clitoris?

A woman may become pregnant whether or not she lubricates or has an orgasm during sex. Your level of sexual excitement has nothing to do with your ability to become pregnant - unless you're avoiding sex because it's not exciting.

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Q&A: Why Does My Girlfriend Feel Bad After We Have Sex?

The experience of sexual pleasure can also tap into people's brain chemistry in ways that, as scientists, we don't fully understand yet. For example, I have heard, from several people who describe sadness associated with sex for reasons they don't understand.

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Q&A: Is It Normal To Fantasize About Having Sex With Random Women?

People can act out romantic sexual fantasies or very explicit no-feelings-involved sexual fantasies. They can be powerful or submissive, have sex with one person or many, or approach a stranger or even a long lost, high school love for sex, massage, making out or to become pregnant.

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Q&A: Young American Women: Only Ones Who Shave Their Pubic Area?

It's common for women and men to say that there's something they like about having even just a little bit of pubic hair. Some people find that it feels very sensual to have a little bit of pubic hair to tug on - that it can enhance sensation during masturbation or partner sex. Others just like how it looks.

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Q&A: I Masturbate Face-Down. Will This Cause Sexual Problems?

Although a face-down style of masturbation that involves rubbing against the bed appears to be less common than a style that involves a man laying on his back or sitting up, that doesn't mean that face-down masturbation will cause sexual problems. ———

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Q&A: Do Condoms Cause My Girlfriend To Bleed During Sex?

Sex may feel dry and your girlfriend may be more prone to small vaginal tears, which can result in small amounts of bleeding during or after sex. Most women will experience small vaginal cuts or tears at some point in their lives.

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Q&A: Is It Bad To Last Too Long While Masturbating?

If you're taking your time and lasting longer to enjoy the sensations, then more power to you! If you find that you are unable to come sooner as much as you try, then expanding your masturbation routine might help your body adapt to different types of stimulation.

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Q&A: My Clitoris And Vulva Are Fusing Together. Is This Okay?

The glans clitoris sometimes seems to fuse to the clitoral hood. Changes to the structre of the vulva, whether to the clitoris or the vaginal lips, can occur as part of menopause, when estrogen levels decrease, or as a result of a genital skin condition such as one called lichen sclerosus.

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Q&A: Could My Girlfriend Be Pregnant If She Missed A Pill?

Plan B - also called the morning after pill - is a highly effective means of birth control when taken within a few days of unprotected sex. If it has been less than 5 days since you two had unprotected sex, you can ask your healthcare provider for more information about this option.

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Q&A: Connection Between Sexual Abuse And The Urge To Pee Before Sex?

As it turns out, it is not uncommon for women to feel as though they have to pee in relation to sexual arousal or sexual behavior. The clitoris, vagina and urethra (which connects to the bladder) are so closely connected that some scientists have suggested that we use the term "clitoral complex" to refer to these interconnections.

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Q&A: Why Do My Vaginal Fluids Taste Sour?

Each woman's vaginal scent and taste are unique to her. So, although it is common for vaginas to taste or smell a bit yeasty, acidic or like sour milk, a woman's vaginal taste can change throughout her menstrual cycle or in response to her behaviors or her health.

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Q&A: I Have Trouble Keeping An Erection With A Condom On

Although condoms typically don't contribute to problems getting or keeping an erection, sometimes men find that they do.

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Q&A: I Masturbate While I Sleep. Is This Normal?

It's unclear how many people act sexually during their sleep but when it does happen, people often don't even know that they masturbate or attempt to be sexual with other people until they either approach someone for sex while sleeping or until they begin sharing a bed with a partner.

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Q&A: Safe To Put Small Round Items Directly Into The Anus?

Unlike the vagina, which is only a few inches long and ends at the cervix, the anus leads into the rectum, where objects can get more easily lost.

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Q&A: Is It Normal To Masturbate Two To Three Times Per Day?

People tend to masturbate more often when they are feeling highly aroused or sexually excited, whether or not they have a partner or are in a relationship.

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Q&A: I Think About Women When I Masturbate. Am I A Lesbian?

Few things in life are cut and dry and neither is sexual orientation. Some women who identify as heterosexual have explored sexually with other women.

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Q&A: Do Condoms Reduce Vaginal Wetness?

As protective as condoms can be, they sometimes make sex feel more dry. Over time, the lubricant may not feel as though it is quite enough.

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Q&A: Is There A Quick Way To Regain An Erection After Orgasm?

Men have what's called a refractory period which is the time between one ejaculation and their ability to ejaculate again.

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Q&A: Should You Take a Break Before Having a Second Round of Sex?

When men are younger, such as in their teens and twenties, they are often able to get an erection that is firm enough for intercourse even minutes after they have sex. On occasion, they may not even become soft again after they first ejaculate - they may maintain some level of hardness for several minutes or longer and continue having sex.

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Q&A: How Long Should Sex Last? Can I Learn To Last Longer?

Many men feel pressure in regard to their sexual performance with a partner. As a result, one of the more common questions that we get about sex has to do with learning to last longer during sex. With experience and practice, men often find that they can increase their control over the timing of their ejaculation.

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Q&A: What Can Be Done About Vaginal Pain During Sex?

As many as 10-15% of women experience chronic genital pain. In this episode, Dr. Debby answers a question about vaginal pain during sex.

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Q&A: Boredom and Expressing Desire For More Variety In The Bedroom

Dr. Debby Herbenick answers a reader's question about how to get her fiance to understand her need for greater variety in how they have sex.

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Q&A: Can I Get My Virginity Back?

Dr. Debby Herbenick answers a young female reader's questions about virginity, specifically if it is possible to "get her virginity back" after having had sex.

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Q&A: Sexual Arousal Differences Between Men and Women

One of the biggest differences between men's and women's sexual arousal response is that men's erections are visible whereas women's arousal is more hidden.

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Q&A: Chemical Changes And Emotional Intimacy After Sex

Some people have described oxytocin as a sort of "bonding hormone" that may influence us to feel more emotional or to feel closer or more connected to others.

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Q&A: Vaginal Tearing During Intercourse, Fingering

Many young women and men have questions about having sex for the first time and losing one's virginity. In regard to your question, it is indeed possible to experience vaginal bleeding from either fingering or penile penetration.

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Q&A: Sexual Arousal With Strangers

Some men find it very difficult to get or maintain an erection with partners who they do not know very well. Often they find that they cannot "make" themselves have an erection just because they want one.

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Q&A: Aging And Erectile Problems

It may be that your refractory period - which is the time between one ejaculation and your ability to have another one - is beginning to lengthen. This is common with age.

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Q&A: HPV And Genital Warts: Are They Contagious?

HPV is extremely common and, although most sexually active women and men have been exposed to HPV, not everyone who has HPV knows that they have it.

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Q&A: Does Masturbation Cause Premature Aging?

Fortunately, there is no truth to the rumors that masturbation causes one to get sick, go blind, grow hair on their hands, or age very quickly. It is common for teenagers and adults to masturbate, whether they are male or female, and there is nothing about masturbating that would cause you to look much older than you are.

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Breast Obsession

Question: My partner is obsessed with my breasts! Though I enjoy the attention, how can I get him to explore other parts of my body?

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Q&A: My Wife Is Uninterested In Certain Sexual Activities

Many couples have different levels of sexual desire as well as different types of things that they enjoy doing sexually. Sometimes these preferences cannot be changed. Other times, there is room for movement.

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Q&A: Strong Genital Odor And Oral Sex

It is a big decision to make oneself physically and emotionally vulnerable to another person - in this case, to let your boyfriend look at, touch, and - yes - even smell and taste your genitals.

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Q&A: Genital Fit vs. Genital Size

Although many people joke about the size of penises and vaginas, people rarely talk about genital size in ways that are helpful or informative.

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Q&A: Getting Fitted For A Collar - Sexual Fantasy Or Alarm Bells?

Without talking directly to your partner about his idea to get you fitted for a collar, it is difficult to know whether he was making a joke, expressing a sexual desire or fantasy, sincerely making plans to get you a collar and involve you in sexual role plays (such as slave and master role plays) or something else.

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Q&A: Foot Fetishes - Are They Normal?

There has been only a little research related to what some call "foot fetishes" and though it is quite clear that people have linked feet into their sex play for centuries, it is unclear what it is that drives some people to experience such intense arousal or eroticism when they see, touch or lick another person's feet.

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Q&A: Open Relationships - Are They Dysfunctional?

There is nothing necessarily "wrong" with people for wanting to be in an open relationship just as there is nothing necessarily "wrong" with people for wanting to be in a monogamous relationship. They are simply different relationship preferences, each with their own challenges and advantages.

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Q&A: Trouble Maintaining An Erection The First Time

Nearly all men will experience difficulties getting or keeping an erection at some point in their lives. Unfortunately, not everyone knows this and so when erection problems happen to them or their partner, they may worry that they have done something wrong.

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Q&A: My Vagina Has Gotten Bigger Since Giving Birth

Although not all women notice changes in the way that sex feels after having been pregnant or given birth, some women do. It's not uncommon for us to hear from women who have questions about their vaginal tightness or about partner slippage issues in which the penis keeps slipping out of the vagina during intercourse.

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Q&A: Healing Time for Genital Cuts and Tears

Genital and anal cuts and tears usually heal within a few days, though healing time can depend on size and severity as well as how you care for them.

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Q&A: Differences Between HPV and HIV

The fact that HPV and HIV sound similar is confusing for many people. They are completely different viruses with important differences between them.

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Q&A: Masturbation Frequency and Common Myths

In spite of many sex educators' and doctors' best efforts to educate people about masturbation, it seems that many masturbation myths persist.

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Q&A: Body Type, Exercise and Physical Attraction

Many people are attracted to people with certain body types and there is nothing wrong or unusual about being attracted to men who work out.

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Q&A: Orgasm and Desire After Vasectomy

When it comes to sex, research suggests that men's sexual desire, satisfaction and erectile function are just as strong after vasectomy as before.

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Q&A: Genital Itching and Burning After Sex

Women's genitals are quite sensitive; as a result, it's not uncommon for women to occasionally notice genital itching or burning. Depending on the details of this sexual encounter, you may have experienced vaginal burning for any number of reasons.

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Q&A: Pre-ejaculate and Pregnancy

Pre-ejaculate is fluid that comes from a man's Cowper's glands, which are small glands inside a man's body, by his penis. This fluid helps to lubricate a man's urethra. There are no sperm in this fluid, so, unless there were already sperm hanging out in the urethra that were then carried out by the Cowper's glands fluids, it is usually not possible to get pregnant from contact with pre-ejaculate.

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Q&A: Boyfriend Doesn't Ejaculate During Sex

Although it is somewhat difficult for women to find it difficult to orgasm during intercourse, most men find that they are usually able to ejaculate and experience orgasm. That said, some men find it quite difficult to ejaculate. While we don't have very good data on the topic, the best research suggests that fewer than 10% of men experience what we sometimes call delayed or inhibited ejaculation.

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Q&A: My Husband Stopped Sleeping with Me

It can feel confusing and frustrating to want to be sexually intimate with one's partner and for that partner to decline invitations to have sex. People stop having sex for many reasons and it is impossible for us to know why your husband stopped having sex with you.

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Q&A: Lambskin Condoms vs. Latex Condoms

Lambskin and other natural skin condoms are certainly one alternative to latex condoms. While it is true that some men experience more sensation during sex when using a natural skin condom, this benefit comes with a cost.

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Q&A: Fatigue The Day After Sex

Although there have been a few case reports of individuals who feel tired or lethargic after sex or masturbation, I'm not aware of any reports of couples feeling so dramatically tired after sex that they find it difficult to go about their daily routine.

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Q&A: Pain From Using a New Vibrator

Vibrators are commonly used by women and men, and they are rarely associated with negative side effects such as discomfort, pain or injury. That said, vaginal sex, anal sex and masturbation - with or without a vibrator - can all result in negative side effects such as genital itching, burning, irritation or tearing. Mostly a person's risk of such side effects depends not only on how they are having sex, but also what their personal health status is like.

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Q&A: Did Masturbation Change the Shape of My Genitals?

Many women have questions about their size and shape of their genital parts - and quite a few women have wondered, like you, if their masturbation has played a part. There is no "standard" size of shape to women's labia and neither masturbation nor partner sex are what shape a woman's genital parts; rather, it's her genetics and health that play the biggest role.

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Q&A: What Does Sex Feel Like?

Given the lack of information about sex that is available to many young women and men, many people aren't sure what to expect when it comes to sex - what to do during sex as well as what sex feels like. You're wise to begin seeking out information about sex well before you even have sex so that, by the time you do have sex, your expectations will be fair and reasonable.

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Q&A: Sex Feels Robotic, What Can I Do?

I love my girlfriend dearly, but it seems that she doesn't enjoy sex with me too much. When we do it, it feels a little 'robotic'. Any advice?

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Q&A: Multiple Orgasms

My girlfriend is amazing. She can have 10-12 orgasms is one hour's worth of sex.? She says it's always been this way for her.? Is there some way to develop this ability?? Or are some people just born lucky?

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Q&A: Erection Problems When Using Condoms

My partner loses his erection every time we try to have sex. This has happened 6 times. I've tried putting it on myself and shortening foreplay but neither has worked. He's fine right until the point the condom is put on. He says it's not because of me and that he really wants to have sex with me but for some reason that always happens. What can I do to help him?

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Q&A: Erection Problems When Using Condoms

My partner loses his erection every time we try to have sex. This has happened 6 times. I've tried putting it on myself and shortening foreplay but neither has worked. He's fine right until the point the condom is put on. He says it's not because of me and that he really wants to have sex with me but for some reason that always happens. What can I do to help him?

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Q&A: How Often Do Older Couples Have Sex?

My wife and I are in our late 50s.? We were having a friendly discussion about the frequency of love making at our age.? I am up for 3-4 times a week.? My wife thinks this is well above the norm. I say, maybe a bit above average, but who cares.? Where are we on the Bell Curve?

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Q&A: Pain From Sex Partner with Large Penis

I am not a virgin. I have had sex three times but that was two years ago and now when I try to the pain is worse than my first time. I know my partner is large but is it possible something else could be wrong?

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Q&A: How Common is Anal Sex Among Heterosexual Couples?

What percentage of heterosexual couples have anal sex?

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Q&A: Sex Dreams and Marital Infidelity

My wife cannot come unless she stimulates herself. She has had dreams of lesbian sex and sex with multiple men and strange men. Am I losing her? Is my wife secretly longing for sex outside of marriage?

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Q&A: Talking About Virginity

Is it socially acceptable for me to talk to other people about the fact that I'm a virgin? Or is that awkward?

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Q&A: Birth Control Pill Effectiveness: How Long Does it Take?

When I first started taking the birth control pill last year, it was just to make my period regular - I wasn't having sex. Now I am thinking about having sex, but I'm not sure when it's safe to do so. Can I have sex at any time without getting pregnant as long as I take the pill? Or do I have to wait a while first?

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Q&A: HIV Testing: How Soon is Too Soon?

How long after possible exposure to HIV should one wait before being tested? I had unprotected sex and then got tested 5 weeks later. It came back negative. Was that too soon?

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Q&A: Aging and Sexual Desire

My wife and I have been married for 20 years and have three children - two currently in college.? My wife is no longer interested in sex - not just intercourse - but also my showing affection like kissing her lips, or kissing her breasts.? Recently she told me that she doesn't feel anything during vaginal intercourse and doesn't want to have any more sex.? What can we do?

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Q&A: Penis Size and Pregnancy

Does penis size matter in terms of getting a woman pregnant?

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Q&A: The Morning After Pill and Frequent Emergency Contraception Use

I've been having sex with my boyfriend for a little over a month. Already I have had to take the morning after pill twice after unprotected sex. Then, today, we determined I should take it again. The previous times I have taken it, it caused a few days to a week of bleeding. Would that be considered my period? If so, can I still get pregnant during those times or should I be okay if we have sex then?

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Q&A: Pregnancy Planning and Deception

My husband and I use condoms for protection and recently we had a scare when a condom broke. I ended up not being pregnant. At first he said he was disappointed that I wasn't pregnant, then said he was relieved since money is tight. I then did something that I can't even explain to myself. The next time we had sex, I emptied one of the condoms inside me when my husband was out of the room. Is it possible that I can get pregnant this way? I know that I shouldn't have done this but I would lo ...

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Q&A: Masturbation Guilt and Health Problems

I'm 25 years old and I don't have sex often, but I have masturbated every day for about two years now and I feel so guilty about it. I'm scared, too, because I've heard that masturbation can cause health problems or physical damage. Is that true?

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Q&A: Female Ejaculation - How Common Is it?

My former girlfriend experienced female ejaculation two times during our three year relationship - once during oral sex and another time during intercourse. I always thought this was something a woman either displays all the time or not at all. Is it normal to be so infrequent?

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Q&A: Pimple on Penis, Could it be Herpes?

I had unprotected sex about a month ago. Then this week, I noticed what looked like a pimple on the shaft of my penis. It popped on its own and had pimple ooze come out of it, like a regular pimple, and now it is almost gone. This made me scared that maybe it was herpes instead of a pimple. Could this be possible?

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Q&A: Reducing Pain During First Time Sex

Soon I am going to have sex for the first time and I have heard that it hurts for women, which scares me. What can you suggest for it to not hurt me?

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Q&A: Adult Wet Dreams - When Will They Stop?

I'm 25 and still have the occasional wet dream.? They are usually quite vivid and wake me out of my sleep. My fiancee hasn't moved in yet, but we usually have sex at least once a week.? So I wouldn't say that I'm sexually frustrated; at least not any more than the average 20 something male.? Will these wet dreams ever stop?

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Do wet dreams ever stop as you get older?

I'm 25 and still have the occasional wet dream.? They are usually quite vivid and wake me out of my sleep. My fiancee hasn't moved in yet, but we usually have sex at least once a week.? So I wouldn't say that I'm sexually frustrated; at least not any more than the average 20 something male.? Will these wet dreams ever stop?? When?

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Am I straight, bi, or gay?

I am a 19 year old male. I am mostly attracted to females physically and a little bit emotionally. However, I have a strong attraction to males sexually - but not emotionally. I am so confused, I don't know whether I'm straight, Bi, or gay. Please help me.

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Can a woman get pregnant from having sex with another woman?

Can a woman get pregnant from having sex with another woman? I was sexual with one of my girlfriends and I am worried that could happen to me.

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When I had sex for the first time I didn't ejaculate. Should I be worried?

I'm 18 and recently had sex for the first time. My girlfriend and I have now done it five times in the past month and I haven't ejaculated any of the times. Is this something to be worried about? I'm still new, and thought maybe it just takes time. I still enjoy it, so it's okay, but I'm just curious about what you think.

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My girlfriend can't feel anything when we're having intercourse. Why might this happen?

My girlfriend says that she can't feel anything when I'm in her. I never had this problem with women before, and am pretty sure it's not a size issue as I'm at least average size. She says this is a serious sexual problem and we need a solution. What are the reasons why a woman wouldn't feel anything during sex? We get along otherwise and I'd like to fix this if we can.

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I found porn on my boyfriend's computer. Is this just a guy thing or should I be worried?

Awhile back I found porn videos on my boyfriend's computer. Ever since, I have felt worthless, sad and like I can't trust him. He promised he wouldn't watch anymore but twice I have looked and found them again. My boyfriend says he doesn't want to upset me, but that it's just a guy thing - is it? Or am I not enough for him?

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My partner has a small penis and I worry that my vagina will be too loose for him.

For years I was with a man who had a very large penis. We broke up and now I have met a man who does not have as big of a penis. Although we haven't had sex yet I feel like that when we do my vaginal size will be much looser to him. Is that true? Will my vagina be stretched out from my ex?

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I have genital warts, can I pass them on to women I have sex with? Can I get cancer from HPV?

I recently learned that I have genital warts on my penis. How should I get treated for these? Can I pass them on to women I have sex with? And is it true that people who have HPV warts, like me, can get cancer from the HPV?

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I've been on birth control for the past year. Can I have unprotected sex without getting pregnant?

I have been on the birth control pill for the past year. Is it safe to have unprotected sex without getting pregnant? Or could I still get pregnant? My boyfriend and I are both STI-free and we'd like to try sex without a condom.

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I've only had sex with men, though I have fantasies about women. Am I bisexual or a lesbian?

I have only had sexual experiences with men, although I mostly fantasize about sex with women. I have strong feelings for men, and enjoy physical intimacy with men, but why do most of my fantasies about sex involve women? Am I bisexual or lesbian?

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After My Second Time Having Sex, I Bled. Does This Mean I Won't Get Pregnant?

Question: I had sex last night for the second time, and this morning, there was blood on my sheets. I was confused because the first time I had sex I bled, and I thought that meant my hymen had broken and that I wouldn't bleed anymore. Also, we were both drunk so we didn't use a condom, but he said I won't get pregnant since I bled. Can you help me?

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Could I Get Pregnant Even If My Boyfriend Ejaculates Before Inserting His Penis Into My Vagina?

Question: My boyfriend and I were petting — he ejaculated and then wiped himself off. After about 5 minutes, he inserted the head of his penis into my vagina. Can I get pregnant because of that?

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After Sex, My Vagina Has Been Hurting and Sometimes It Burns. Should I Be Worried?

Question: Recently, after having sex with my boyfriend, my vagina has been hurting and sometimes it burns. Should I be worried?

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My Clitoris is Constantly Dry. What's Going On?

Question: My clitoris is constantly dry and sometimes I can see some white discharge on my underwear. It has this bread-like smell to it. My vagina is also not as moisturized as it used to be, and during intercourse it takes time for the juices to start flowing. What could be going on?

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Is Intensely Passionate Sex a Sign of a Healthy Relationship or Just a Strong Libido?

Question: My sex partner and I have really good sexual chemistry together, but we're complete opposites when we're not having sex. Is intensely passionate sex a sign of a healthy relationship or just a strong libido?

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Could My Frenulum Tear if My Foreskin is Pulled Too Far Back?

Question: During sex, my partner usually masturbates me. Lately, he's been pulling my foreskin a little too far back. It feels good most of the time, but sometimes it's uncomfortable, and I'm afraid it might tear my frenulum. Is this possible?

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Do Women Always Bleed the First Time That They Have Sex?

Question: Do women always bleed the first time that they have sex? My girlfriend said that she had never had sex with anyone before, but then we had sex and there was no blood on the sheets. Does that mean that she was lying to me about being a virgin?

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I Have a Small Vagina. What Can I Do to Make Sex Easier and More Comfortable?

Question: Going into my relationship with my boyfriend, I was a virgin and he was not. After waiting until we were both ready, we talked about it and decided that it was time. I had been told in the past by my gynecologist that I have a very small vagina. It has never been easy inserting tampons or even my boyfriend's finger. Every time we've tried to have sex, he can't get in me at all. What can we do besides try lube? Are some positions better than others?

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Is It Normal for My Boyfriend to Masturbate Even Though We Live Together and Have a Great Sex Life?

Question: I know that all men masturbate but I'm bothered by the fact that my boyfriend does it. I just moved in with him and we have different work hours and our sex life is great when we have I, but sometimes we can't because of our schedules. Is it normal for him to still be masturbating even though we're living together and having sex?

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Should We Use Birth Control During Dry Sex?

Question: My girlfriend and I are engaging in dry sex in which she has panties on with boxer shorts whereas I have worn boxers as well but also have been naked. I am getting a lot of mixed signals about the pregnancy risk from dry humping when I look for answers on the internet. I have not ejaculated, but am aware that some pre-seminal fluid exists in my shorts. What are some birth control methods we could use for better peace of mind? Would a condom be a good choice or will it just rip o ...

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Is It Possible to Get a Yeast Infection from Oral Sex?

Question: My wife and I used to have oral sex once in a while and both enjoyed it. Now she says when I give her oral pleasure she says she gets a yeast infection. For this reason she won't let me do it anymore. I don't think she gets an infection if she performs fellatio on me prior to intercourse. Is a yeast infection possible from oral sex?

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I Received a Cut on My Genitals During Sex, Should I See a Doctor or Get Stitches?

Question: My boyfriend and I were having sex last night and we noticed there was blood everywhere all of a sudden. I jumped in the shower, blood streaming everywhere. I found a cut on the outside of my vagina, in the folds between my vulva and outer labia. The bleeding has stopped now, but the cut is pretty long and deep. If it were on any other part of my body I would consider stitches. What should I do? Can I let it heal on its own? I don't think I can afford a doctor's visit.

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Trouble Reaching Orgasm Through Masturbation

Question: Hello, I have a major problem that frustrates me to the fullest. And that is never achieving an orgasm while masturbating. I remember masturbating for two and half hours and not achieving an orgasm once. Is there something wrong with me compared to other women?

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Water Gets Into My Vagina When I Take Baths. What Can I Do?

Question: Sometimes when I take baths I have an issue with water getting into my vagina. I usually do not realize when this happens. It will go unnoticed for a while, even a couple of hours sometimes. When the water works its way out it is usually enough to soak through my panties. No one has been able to tell me why this happens and it is really embarrassing. Please help.

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My Boyfriend Gets an Erection When He Sees an Attractive Woman. Can't He Control This?

Question: My boyfriend and I are in our twenties and have been dating for a few years. On two occasions recently I noticed that he got an erection when he saw an attractive woman. I got mad and upset. Is it normal for me to feel this way? And can't he control his erections?

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I Have a Fantasy About Group Masturbation. Is This Healthy?

Question: I have this fantasy to be part of a coed masturbation group - is this healthy? Sometimes I feel like this is a weird fantasy but then I think that masturbation is a safe healthy form of sexual expression, so maybe other adults would be interested in forming a group or whatever. Does such a thing exist or have you heard of anything like this ever?

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Worried About Infection from Vaginal Bleeding

Question: I bought a vibrator shaped like a penis to start experimenting with sex toys. I'd never done anything that involved penetrating my vagina before, and the first time I used the toy, I barely put it in and my vagina started bleeding. I'm worried that I might have an infection of some sort that I never knew about.

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Possible to Get Pregnant Even When Using Contraception and Not Ejaculating?

Question: My girlfriend and I had sex with a condom, and I didn't ejaculate. Now she's scared she's pregnant. Could she be?

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New to Sex, Where Can I Learn About Birth Control and Sexuality?

Question: My boyfriend and I are ready to have sex together, and I have a lot of questions about it, since I'm a virgin. My boyfriend wants me to feel as comfortable and informed as possible. Where can we learn about birth control options and sexuality issues?

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Trouble with Penis Pills

Question: When I was 16-years-old, I took pills that were supposed to make my penis get bigger. Now I'm 20 and my penis hasn't grown since I was about 17. Do you think that taking the pills caused me damage in some way?

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What Am I Supposed to do in the Missionary Position?

Question: When my boyfriend and I are having sex in the missionary position I feel like I just lay there. I don't know what to do. What am I supposed to be doing?

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Techniques to Last Longer in Bed

Question: Are there any techniques I can use to last longer than 15 minutes in bed?

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Lesbian Sex Dwindling in Long Distance Relationship

Question: My girlfriend and I have been in a lesbian relationship for nine months. There was a lot of sex in the beginning of our relationship, but as it progressed the sex has dwindled to being once every two or three weeks. Do you have any advice?

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I Gave My Partner Herpes

Question: I made a huge ethical mistake and didn't tell my partner that I have genital herpes. Now he has herpes. What should I do?

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Porn Insecurities

Question: Sometimes my boyfriend watches porn and I feel intimidated by this. I've talked to him about it before and he says I have nothing to worry about. Why do I still feel intimidated?

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Quantity of Semen and Force Behind Ejaculation

Question: I'm a 48 year old male and recently I've noticed that when I ejaculate there's hardly any semen, and also there's no force behind the ejaculations. I was wondering what I can do, or should I see a doctor?

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Risk of Pregnancy During Menstruation

Question: What are the chances of pregnancy during menstruation?

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Crooked Erection

Question: I've started noticing that my penis becomes crooked when erect, a bend in the middle maybe 20 degrees to the left. It doesn't hurt, but there's a slight tension. Should I see a doctor or take special herbs?

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Common Sexually Transmissible Infections

Question: How common are Sexually Transmissible Infections and which are most common? Are there symptoms I should look for?

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My Girlfriend 's Vagina Becomes Sensitive After Orgasm

Question: Whenever I give my girlfriend and orgasm she always tells me to stop because her vagina becomes too sensitive to touch. Sometimes she even tells me it hurts. Is this normal or should we be concerned?

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Is My Penis Large Enough?

Question: My girlfriend had a previous partner that had a penis that was a lot larger than mine. My penis is six inches long. When we have sex how do I know if I'm pleasing her?

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I'm Embarassed About Purchasing Sex Toys

Question: I'd like to buy a vibrator, but I have no idea how to go about getting one. I'm too embarrassed to go into a store, but I'm also hesitant about buying online. Can you give any advice about how and where to get vibrators?

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Leaving Space at the Tip of Condoms

Question: I'm new to condoms. When I leave space at the tip, is one-half inch enough? I'm worried that if the condom fills up with semen it might back up inside my penis. Any thoughts on this?

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Anti-Depressants and the Ability to Orgasm

Question: I'm being treated for depression but I'm worried that the antidepressant may ruin my sex life. Is it true that medications can keep you from having orgasms?

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Amount of Semen

Question: Lately, I've noticed a dramatic reduction in the amount of semen I have. I realize this is a natural phenomenon, but is there something more that might be going on?

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Menopause and Unprotected Sex

Question: My wife is 51 and her periods are almost gone. How will we know when it's safe to have unprotected sex again?

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Analingus and Safe Anal Sex

Question: Sometimes I like to give rimjobs to my girlfriend and have anal sex with her. If we're both STI free, do I need to worry about contracting anything? Also, is there any chance of hurting her during anal sex even if we do it properly?

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Non-Lubricated Condoms and Bleeding

Question: Recently my boyfriend and I had sex using a non-lubricated condom. It became painful so I had him stop, and the morning after I noticed there was some bleeding when I went to the bathroom. Is this something that will heal on its own or do I need to see my gynecologist?

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Sex for Only Twenty Seconds

Question: I had sex with my girlfriend without a condom for only twenty seconds. Is it possible she will get pregnant?

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Erection Remains After Ejaculation

Question: My boyfriend and I are both virgins. We've gone as far as oral sex, and after he ejaculates his erection remains, even long enough to go for two more rounds. Neither of us are concerned, but we're just wondering why this occurs.

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Body Size and Sexual Activity

Question: I've been with my partner for over a year now and we're very happy together. He's five foot seven and 145 pounds and I'm five foot six and over 250. I'm concerned that I can't fulfill his needs in the bedroom like a smaller person could. What can I do besides losing the weight, which I'm already doing?

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Sex with a Professor

Question: I'm currently having sex with a professor. I know this isn't a very good idea, but the professor is helping me with my grades. What should I do? How can I get it to stop without jeopardizing my grade?

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Female Masturbation a Sexual Activity?

Question: Does female masturbation count as sexual activity?

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Chlamydia from a Bikini Wax?

Question: Is it possible to get Chlamydia from a bikini wax?

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The Kinsey Scale

Question: Since the release of the Kinsey movie, friends ask me about the Kinsey scale and the test. Can you pass along the test?

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Sexual Orientation

Question: What does it mean to be gay? I'm attracted to women sexually - not men - but I can make deep meaningful connections with men, while I have trouble establishing friendships with women. How do I figure this out?

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Penis Enlargement

Question: I've read about different pills, pumps, herbs, exercises, and surgeries that claim to increase penis size. Do they really work?

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Safe Breast Enlargement

Question: I have very small breasts. I was wondering if there is any way other than surgery to increase my breast size that works.

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Frequent Sex and Emotional Intimacy

Question: My girlfriend and I have sex between two and three times a day. Can having sex this frequently be harmful to our relationship and emotional attachment to each other?

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Special Edition: Valentine's Day

What is the connection between love and sex, and how do you study these hard to explain emotional and physical states that are such an important part of our human experience?

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Pornography for Women

Question: How common is it for women to look at porn?

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Pornography for Women

Question: How common is it for women to look at porn?

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Condom Slippage

Question: I'm a heterosexual male in a monogamous relationship. Recently, at or near climax, my condom slipped off completely. I didn't know this until I reached to hold on to it as I withdrew. Why did this happen? I produce a lot of pre-cum; does this have anything to do with it? More importantly, how can I keep this from happening in the future?

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Breast Obsession

Question: My partner is obsessed with my breasts! Though I enjoy the attention, how can I get him to explore other parts of my body?

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Female Orgasms During Intercourse

Question: I'm a 22-year-old female, and I've never had an orgasm during "standard" sex - only oral. I thought that maybe it was my first partner, but I wasn't able to achieve it with my second partner either. Is this normal for women?

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Penis Size

Question: I'm always anxious to show my penis to a partner for the first time. Is it too small or too big? Too curved or too straight? Too thick or too thin? or just a weird color? What should I look like?

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Sexual Fantasies

Question: I've been having sexual fantasies about acts I would never consider doing in real life. Is there something wrong with me?

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Sexual Fantasies

Question: I've been having sexual fantasies about acts I would never consider doing in real life. Is there something wrong with me?

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Condom Slippage

Question: I'm a heterosexual male in a monogamous relationship. Recently, at or near climax, my condom slipped off completely. I didn't know this until I reached to hold on to it as I withdrew. Why did this happen? I produce a lot of pre-cum; does this have anything to do with it? More importantly, how can I keep this from happening in the future?

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Condom Slippage

Question: I'm a heterosexual male in a monogamous relationship. Recently, at or near climax, my condom slipped off completely. I didn't know this until I reached to hold on to it as I withdrew. Why did this happen? I produce a lot of pre-cum; does this have anything to do with it? More importantly, how can I keep this from happening in the future?

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Breast Obsession

Question: My partner is obsessed with my breasts! Though I enjoy the attention, how can I get him to explore other parts of my body?

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Female Orgasms During Intercourse

Question: I'm a 22-year-old female, and I've never had an orgasm during "standard" sex - only oral. I thought that maybe it was my first partner, but I wasn't able to achieve it with my second partner either. Is this normal for women?

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Penis Size

Question: I'm always anxious to show my penis to a partner for the first time. Is it too small or too big? Too curved or too straight? Too thick or too thin? or just a weird color? What should I look like?

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Female Orgasms During Intercourse

Question: I'm a 22-year-old female, and I've never had an orgasm during "standard" sex - only oral. I thought that maybe it was my first partner, but I wasn't able to achieve it with my second partner either. Is this normal for women?

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Penis Size

Question: I'm always anxious to show my penis to a partner for the first time. Is it too small or too big? Too curved or too straight? Too thick or too thin? or just a weird color? What should I look like?

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Sexual Fantasies

Question: I've been having sexual fantasies about acts I would never consider doing in real life. Is there something wrong with me?

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