Link to the Show / Show NotesJim Mulholland-My brother, Matt, called me for advice last week. He was upset and confused. His five year old daughter, Madeline, had been the victim of child abuse and he didn't know what to do or who to tell. Normally, you'd go to the police, but the situation was complicated. The perpetrator was one of Madeline's uncles and confronting him might split the family. Especially since what he'd done was neither sexually nor physically abusive. Though Madeline was clearly traumatized, many would think what happened was harmless or even cute.